Every pet owner hopes their furry pal is happy — but since they can’t exactly turn around and say, “Cheers, you’re deadly,” we have to look for other clues.
Thankfully, cats and dogs are full of little giveaways. You just need to know what to watch for.
1. The Big Welcome Home
You know the one — the wagging tail, the squeaky bark, the full-body wiggle that says, “Where have you been all my life?”
That’s a sure sign your dog is happy and feels secure with you.
Cats tend to be a bit more civilised about it, but if yours trots over, gives a wee meow, or bumps their head against your leg, that’s their version of rolling out the red carpet.
2. They’re Chilled Around You
A pet that can totally relax in your company feels safe.
Dogs that flop belly-up on the floor or fall asleep with their paws in the air are saying, “I trust you.” Cats lying on their side or curling up near you are doing the same — even if they might pretend otherwise.
It’s the little stuff: the yawn, the stretch, the gentle sigh. They’re relaxed because they know they’re grand.
3. They Still Want to Play
If your dog trots over with a toy in their mouth or your cat does midnight zoomies through the hall, that’s happiness right there.
Play is how they burn off energy and show they’re feeling good. It’s also their way of saying, “Come on, have a laugh with me.”
A pet that’s anxious or unhappy usually won’t bother — so the more playful they are, the better.
4. Eating, Sleeping, and Purring Away
A healthy appetite and decent kip are good signs for any creature.
Dogs that tuck into dinner and then sprawl out snoring on the couch are living the dream. Cats who groom themselves, nap in sunbeams, and purr softly while they snooze — same story.
If you notice sudden changes like skipping meals or hiding away, that’s worth checking with your vet, but the odd off-day is normal too.
5. The Eye Contact Thing
You’ve probably seen it — your cat gives you that slow, lazy blink. That’s them saying, “All’s well, I trust you.”
Try blinking slowly back; most cats take it as a friendly signal.
Dogs use eyes too — a soft, gentle look means they’re connected and comfortable. It’s not the same as the “where’s my dinner” stare!
6. The Little Lean or Nudge
If your dog leans against you, rests their head on your knee, or lies across your feet, it’s affection. They’re literally saying, “You’re my safe spot.”
Cats do it differently — rubbing their cheeks on you or gently headbutting your hand. That’s how they share scent and claim you as one of their own.
Either way, it’s love — just expressed in their own weird, furry language.
7. They Cope Fine When You’re Out
This one’s a biggie. A happy, well-adjusted pet can chill when you leave because they trust you’ll come back.
They might nap, chew a toy, or watch the world go by from the window. They’re content because they know they’re cared for.
And if you’re away longer than usual, having someone familiar — like one of us at Pet Angel Sitters — keeps that calm going. Routine and trust are everything for animals.
A Few Bonus Giveaways
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That deep, contented sigh when they curl up beside you.
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A gentle tail wag or upright cat tail.
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Following you from room to room, just to keep an eye on you.
They don’t need words; they’re saying it loud and clear — “I’m happy here.”
If Your Pet Doesn’t Tick Every Box
Don’t worry — every animal shows affection differently. Some are snugglers, others like their own space. What matters most is that they seem relaxed, confident, and content.
If anything feels off like hiding, loss of appetite, or sudden changes then have a chat with your vet. Better safe than sorry.
A Final Word from Pet Angel Sitters
At the end of the day, a happy pet is the best thank you you can get. Whether it’s a wag, a purr, or a quiet blink, it means you’re doing something right.
And when you can’t be there yourself, Pet Angel Sitters are always here to keep that same sense of comfort and love going while you’re away.
Because every pet deserves to feel right at home — even when you’re not there.
